<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Paradigmshift]]></title><description><![CDATA[Paradigmshift]]></description><link>https://www.paradigmshiftcoaching.co.uk/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 14:20:59 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.paradigmshiftcoaching.co.uk/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[        ]]></title><description><![CDATA[One of the tools I use in coaching is   Stephen Covey's  Circle of Concern Circle of Influence Circle of Control It can be particularly useful when clients are carrying burdens that aren't theirs to carry, or spending too much energy worrying about things they cannot change.    What matters to you, but is outside your control or influence.    What you may not control directly, but where your actions, voice or choices can make a...]]></description><link>https://www.paradigmshiftcoaching.co.uk/post/47d0158d</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aa00592334f1420a69964f3</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 12:59:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/2b7ca9_ef33301699d44b86ba2f2bc4b28bb387~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_367,h_385,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Irene Poku</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[     ?]]></title><description><![CDATA[A simple question I often use in coaching.When it is our situation we can overthink doubt ourselves see all the reasons why we can’t But if a friend came to us with exactly the same problem… We’d probably see things differently.We might tell them to: ➡️   ➡️   ➡️   ➡️  ➡️   So here’s the question:What would you tell a friend? And perhaps more...]]></description><link>https://www.paradigmshiftcoaching.co.uk/post/8dcbee99</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a9fff604086fafdb0d60d17</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2026 12:33:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/d7d494_06ebb1e81cd240f390bc5a27dff06ba0~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_800,h_620,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Irene Poku</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>